Friday, December 5, 2008

Awaiting Saint Nicholas


Tonight, all over Europe, children are allowed to leave their boots inside, neatly placed, awaiting the kindy arrival of sweet Saint Nicholas (known as Mos Nicolae here in Romania, Sinterklaas in the Dutch world, and eventually morphing into jolly ol' Santa Claus). Beside our advent candle we read the tender story of the 4th century bishop of Myra who, born to a wealthy family, spent his life quietly helping those in need. "His mother and father taught him to be generous to others, especially those in need. So Nicholas came to see that helping others makes one richer in life than anything else." (I had to substitute goats for girls in the story because Briana sobbed uncontrollably when I read that Nicholas threw gold into a family's window on the night before the father was forced to sell one of his daughters to save the family from poverty's ruin. Goats she could accept.)
Much of the time my mind is heavy with all the things Briana might be missing by not growing up in America, but on this occasion it is made light with the opportunities and blessings made hers by living in Romania. On Sundays when we go to church she sits beside and draws with a girl named Ana, who faithfully attends church each Sunday to worship and to beg for the family's livelihood. Desiring to help Briana to better know the joy of giving than that of receiving inspired this letter left her in the spirit of Saint Nicholas a couple of days ago. It has made my heart glad to watch her spend most of her play time these past two days inspecting, arranging and wrapping the gifts she picked out.

Dear Briana,
Friday, December 5, is the night that I visit all the children of the world to bring them joy, love and surprises, and especially the poor children. There are so many children in the world that I haven’t time to take care of everyone. Can you help me please? I need you to buy Ana and Rares (those beautiful children who visit with you at church) some school supplies and maybe some clothes. Can you do that for me? Leave your presents for Ana and Rares next to your boots on Friday night and I will add some things. Then maybe you can help me some more and take their gifts to church on Sunday. Thank you so much for your help!
See you Friday night,
Saint Nicholas
Some real gems have escaped her mouth lately including, "Mama, Saint Nicholas doesn't just love poor children" and "Mama, are you real or pretend?" Hmmmm.
St. Nicholas' story beautifully told here: http://www.cptryon.org/prayer/child/nick.html
Woodcut print by Mary Azarian

3 comments:

candifer said...

so precious!

i received sweet gifts in my boot from st. nikolaus yesterday here in deutschland :-)

i love reading about all of your adventures with briana.

"every child comes with the message that God is not yet discouraged of man." tagore

candi

D said...

i miss romania at christmastime more than anyother time.

briana is having a richer life than many

i love you!

JenHolly said...

I agree that Briana has a very full life and you are giving her so much. The only thing I can think of that she is missing by not being in America is boatloads of hugs and kisses from her Auntie Holly. Perhaps it's better the way it is. I wouldn't want her to get sick of me. :)

Thank you for sharing yet another beautiful story.
Sending you oodles and oodles of love...